Okay... so I need to use this blog because I need some help, but I don't want the whole world or ward knowing. I had a run in tonight with someone. I said some things that I should not have said, but I am afraid it may have ruined a friendship. I should have just kept my mouth shut like advised to do so, but when I feel strongly about something I usually don't. Any suggestion on what I should do or if I should just let it be.
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5 comments:
i've gotten myself in trouble before too.
if it's a minor offense, maybe you can sit down (after things settle down) and talk things out with this person and hopefully you expressing your opinion hasn't ruined a friendship.
if it's a really big thing, sometimes the best reaction is no reaction...just smile and be nice and don't bring it up and hopefully it will become water under the bridge over time.
i have definitely done that, too- and i agree with ami. i'm a "fix-it" kind of person and sometimes push to hard to resolve things, which just makes them worse. so sometimes it is better to just do nothing and wait it out.
Oh man, I JUST went through this last week, and I totally agree with the above. It kind of depends on the friendship you've got with this person, and what it can handle. Good luck!
We have all been in that situation atleast once. Even people with the best of intentions. Definitely talk to the person. If for no other reason, your conscience will be clear. Sometimes these types of situations can make friendships stronger.
Well, I don't know if I made it better, but I did send an apology note in the mail. Hopefully in time it will just blow over. Thanks for all the advice everyone!
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